8 Ways Ladies Stylishly Punish Guys On First Date

I don't know why some ladies prove hard to get as they stylishly punish guys to know if he can withstand their haughty behaviour or simply they are not interested in having a relationship with him.

Therefore, I will discuss briefly on ways ladies stylishly punish guys.

1. Bring friends along like Protocol officers.
The poor dude perhaps may have borrowed money just to make the date a memorable one. However he later discovers that instead of having a date with his supposed girlfriend alone, she eventually comes along with her numerous friends to siphon his pocket. Funny enough if he tells her his preparation was just for him and her alone, she will start nagging, giving unnecessary excuses like maybe he is a criminal or something, so she can't trust a stranger.

2. They get busy with their mobile devices

This is when they bring out their collection of mobile devices and start pressing them as if they have not operated one before whereby making the dude look foolish and non existence in their presence.

3. Make him overspend

Some ladies are parasitic in nature as they explore the rare advantage at the ink of any date by requesting for several meals, etc. I call them "the sharwama or hot dog babes" as they pick every dick and Harry of meals in an eatery during the first date.

4. They show up very late

When a date is fix at 3pm, they showed up around 6pm giving flimsy excuses of traffic jam due to a tanker explosion, armed robbery attack, boko haram bombing, etc. Thereafter, they won't show any remorse at the expense of expecting the guy to apologise.
*Person whey e dey lagos dey claim boko haram bombing... some babes no sabi lie*

5. Monosyllabic reponse to your discussion
How can a guy talks like parrot from morning till night, trying to prove good sense of humour only for him to get short and annoying responses from her like "k" "alright", "hmmm", "what", etc. His morale and confidence will burst like balloon.... one time!

6. Communicate with unfriendly body languages

Some use frustrating body languages like bad eyeing to downsize him, hissing continuously and frown @ him like tiger. In such scenario, the guy will have no choice other than to call it quit.


7. They deliberately start making several calls

This is the time they start calling their long time friends and relatives, keeping the guy in their lust prison like a dog. As a guy, so many things will be going on his mind as what he can do to have the lady's attention.

8. They are in a hurry to leave

Perhaps she is a student, this is when she claims about an early lecture to attend the next day after she came late o! She rush the whole dating thing by asking the guy to get her "take away meal" and she zooms off immediately.
"Babe just admit it, you are hungry and looking for maga to feed u."

7 Reasons Why Test Of Sexual Capability Before Marriage Leads To Marital Crisis

The avalanche of proponents that have consistently corroborated the 21st century believe that: women should test their husband-to-be to ensure he is good in bed, is just another one of the many excuses people raise up to encourage traditions and fashions that will further proliferate immorality and further take sodomize this world,the supporting arguments are all lies from the pit of hell.

Here are the reasons below:

1. If you are satisfied with him sexually, is he satisfied?

In a lady's quest to ensure that he marries a sexually active man, are you sure you will/have satisfied him, then the man has equal right to put an end to that relationship no matter how far it has gone - leading to lost of time(months and years) and potential suitors that gave up on you when you were in that relationship.

2. The tester may end up being decieved by an hit and run

some people can easily fake a non-existent readiness to marry you and in the end, when the crown of victory has been won for making love with you in your quest to find out for sexual compatibiliy, that partner looks for silly excuses to say it's over.

3. At what point will the test be certified tested OK.

I will never encourage anyone to make love on a first date, or even engage in premarital sex, so if this holds, and perhaps after some dates and a lady/guy that believe in testing for sexual compatibility engages in the testing excercise,when will you finish collecting samples to complete your research,how many times, and how long. Won't be surprised if this same person engages in mocking people that are prostitute - what then are you? Lets say after some years of testing,you found the partner not OK,what tells you the next will be?

4. You the tester,may become the tested.

The partner may even be dumped the next day after she had a certified OK test with her partner, only for her to find out that she didn't reciprocate same. this happening more than once in a lady's life ,will surely lead to a shattered heart torn in pieces.

5. The partner you certified OK, may even fail the next day.

The most amusing fact is that africans before the 21st centuryHardly engage in courtship and yet they grow old together and die loving each other forever. We have courtship and we are still unsatisfied. Your partner that has been superb in bed, may become weak when you are married,what happens? Would you cheat to augment? Sue for divorce? See beyond sex as the only pillar of marriage,so far the man/woman can procreate? The world want to make us believe we can figure every thing out all by ourselves,but truly,marriage is a leap of faith. The test you carried out may even make you a young baby mama after 9 months or worst still you tried aborting and ended up with a spoilt womb,will you still insisit on testing afterwards,because i doubt if majority do this test with condoms.

6. The partner may be using some sexual enhancers.

We can't deny the existence of sexual enhancers,what will you do when he stops after marriage. If this is the basis for being married to men can go the extra mile to deicieve those that have this topmost in their criteria for an healthy marriage or relationship.
What would you do afterwards? Be the next sugar-mummy in town when he travels out? I won't advice so.

7. Would there be further test to confirm if both partner can procreate?

He is good in bed, she is very experienced,bla bla bla, etc. Is he/she also good in making children? Would you get pregnant before going into marriage? This may be the next line of excuse for immorality,may be not now,may be in ten years time.
If marriage is all about sex,then the purpose is invalid.
Casual sex is as rampant as the days go,Marriage should be also about companionship, friendship, and a union where two people support each others to reach their most cherished heart desires. No matter how it is painted pre-marital sex as a way of ensuring he/she will be good in bed is decietful and mostly counter productive.

Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things

Ladies, do not make excuses and say you didn’t know when enough was enough.

Here are 4 red flags that should give you the key to exit the relationship, as soon as you can.

1. He cheats

Many people will say this point is debatable because lots of couples who have fidelity issues repair their relationship and end up better than where they were pre-cheating. But it’s not the act of cheating that’s the deal-breaker here; it’s the disrespect, broken trust and significant risk to your health. (Hello, STDS!) With all the risks that hang in the balance for just a tiny bit of pleasure, it’s entirely inconsiderate and selfish when a man cheats on you. Do you want someone who puts his wants before your needs, like security and trust? You should not, which is why you have to say BYE to cheating men.

2. He gets violent, even if he doesn’t hit you

You may think this is a no-brainer but honestly it isn’t. Most women I know who’ve been in abusive relationships have immense strength, only to shut down in the presence of her partner’s anger and violence. No healthy relationship can be built off a foundation of fear because you never know when his actions may escalate.

3. He doesn’t claim or proclaim you

Many women will spend time in limbo-like relationships with guys who won’t give them the girlfriend title. Here’s the truth: If you’ve been dating a man for longer than six to nine months and he hasn’t made you an official part of his life, it’s time to MOVE ON. Stop making excuses for why things aren’t progressing to the next level; you’ll only waste time and your time is worth more than that. Don’t settle for less because you don’t want a man who makes you a bargain-bin find. If he knows your worth, he’ll claim and proclaim you and there will be few conversations about how ‘he isn’t ready.’

4. He suffers from addiction

There are plenty of honor badges to be earned by standing by your man when he’s fallen on hard times. But CAUTION if you stick with a man fighting demons, namely addiction. Addiction can range from less-severe, like cigarettes, to major issues such as drug, alcohol, pornography and sex. Someone who suffers from an addiction will do anything – and I mean anything – to get their fix, even at the expense of those they love. So unless you’d like to be second to whatever vices he has, it may be time to ‘leave smoke.’

10 Reasons Women Like Bad Guys

isn't it funny how the guy who's arrogant ,rude and acclaimed flirt and loud mouthed with zero regards for women seems to get all the girls running into his arms,while the polite and sensitive guy would be lucky to have one girl look his way?

is it that most women have an addiction to being treated badly,or what?

Researchers suggest that bad guys indeed beat "nice guys" when it comes to getting females attention. Here are some of the reasons.

1. I want to fix him-women always feel the need to repair something. Regardless of the unacceptable behavior of a bad boy may have,women still feel they can change him.

2. The law of attraction - opposite poles attracts while like poles repel. This also applies to women. A good girl finds herself drawn to that man who is everything she is not,infact her opposite.

3. What is he thinking - Mystery keeps women coming back, when a woman can't predict what a guy is thinking,or his next action,they become more intrigued.

4. Save me - when a woman is in distress, she would love her man to show up and play superman. most bad guys most often are up to the task.

5. Sexy confidence - Most bad guys exude charisma and confidence ,which is a magnet for women.

6. Blurred reality - after seeing several movies where a bad boy hero finally finds love after saving a damsel from distress,women begin drawn to bad guys.

7. Come alive - excitement,fun,spontaneity! all these words can be found in the bad boy vocabulary. women crave something different from their regular lifestyle .

8. Good looks and charm - good guys are good looking too, but bad guys take more time and effort to look dashing ,women find this irresistible.

9. Givers and takers - women generally feel the need to give care,nurture, care .etc. They are generally giver of attention. A bad guy on the other hand is a receiver, he's naturally a taker which motivates women to do more.

10. Win the trophy - women don't like push over guys . they would rather have the man all ladies wanted ,they feel a sense of satisfaction in being the winner of the prized gift .

Criticism is welcomed .

8 Signs She Enjoys Having $ex With You

Whether you have been together for years or you
just started dating, it is important for you to
know if you are both satisfied with your $ex lives.
You do not want to be so focused on your own
pleasure and disregard hers. So, are you really
that good in bed or is she hoping you get done
quickly so she can go to sleep?
Let’s find out by taking a look at the top 8
signs that proves she is having fun below.

1. She’s Wet: This is a no-brainer when it
comes to $exual pleasure. Just like a man gets
obviously aroused when he is ready, a
woman’s main arousal sign is that she is wet
down there. If she does not seem “ready”
prolong the pre-intimacy as much as you can and
make sure you are hitting the right spots. She
will thank you for it.

2. Quickening Breath : Another sign of arousal is
that her breath gets quicker and more urgent,
the more excited she gets. Watch for intense
gaze and steadily quickening breath, then you
know you’ve got her.

3. She Tightens Around You : If she seems to be
getting tighter around you as you go on, this is
a sign that she is enjoying what you are doing.
A woman having fun gets tighter and wetter as
she feels more pleasured.

4. Holds You (or something else) Tighter : Does
her grip on you seem to be getting tighter?
Does she seem to be grabbing the sheets or the
headboard like her life depends on it? A
woman in the throes of extreme pa$$ion
would have an intense urge to hold on tight.

5. Toes Curl: If you are keeping a closer eye on
your partner’s reactions, you would notice
that her toes curl in the moment of pleasure.

6. She Communicates : A partner who tells you
what she likes during $ex (verbally or via
body language) is definitely having a good
time and wants more. She would not waste her
time telling you what she wants if you were
not doing a pretty good job in the first place.

7. She Climaxes : The signs above could also tell
you that she is close to orgasm and if you feel
her reach that final release, then that is your
main proof. It is almost impossible for a
woman to climax without having reached the
ultimate peak of pleasure and desire.

8. Initiates $ex: One way a woman gets turned
on for $ex is when she remembers how great
it was the last time. It is this memory that
would lead her to approach you and request
for more good times. If she is always calling
you for more, or reaching for you even when
you are both watching TV, then she obviously
cannot get enough.